Sandamini Perera

In conversation with Ashwini Vethakan

JOURNEY OF LIFE

Born in

1972 

Alma mater

Vidyakara Girls’ School (Maharagama) 

Family members

My husband (Chaminda) and our sons (Mesath and Sanmith)

Wanted to be

A simple woman

Is (but didn’t want to be)

Someone who never wanted to lead a busy life 

Driven by

Pain and challenge

Would like to drive

People towards a better purpose

Moments you would like to go back to

My days in school

Best advice received

Believe that criticisms of me are expressed for my own good

INTIMATE AND INSPIRING

Happy place

My office 

Likes to play

Any sporty and enjoyable activity with my kids and friends

Likes to watch

Travel shows, documentaries and movies

Most unforgettable event

The day I became a mother

Most forgettable event

It’s forgotten

Success to me is

Fulfilment

Purpose in life

Making myself and those around me happy

Items on the bucket list for the next six months

Visiting 10 unseen places in Sri Lanka, improving my ability to maintain the headstand position in yoga to 10 minutes and taking a 10 kilometre morning walk for an hour

UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL

Mantra to live by

Success doesn’t come easy

Most hated chore

Firing people

Impressed by

Commitment and effort

Hobbies

Listening to music and dancing

Pet peeves

Negativity, impulsiveness and laziness

What you think about when you’re in the car

The blessings I have received in life

The best part about working in the real estate sector

Real estate is predominantly a male dominated field so it’s a major challenge for a woman to work among men

What you love about the sector

The opportunity to travel the length and breadth of this country

An aspect you appreciate about the real estate sector

When projects are in the process of being designed and constructed, I enjoy designing the interior and landscape – and seeing to every minute detail

Your approach to the business aspect of working in the sector

Purchasing houses or land calls for a lifetime investment – and in this scenario, I need to be very focussed, serious and careful

How the real estate sector has impacted your life

I cherish the fact that I’m in the real estate sector because it enables me to flex my creative muscles

Items on the bucket list following retirement

Practising yoga for long hours and enjoying a long holiday without my mobile phone, or having to see to any emails or WhatsApp messages

Three must-haves

Love, health and happiness

What you would like to have

Freedom, money and satisfaction

The most romantic thing anyone has done for you

Bringing a smile on my face the moment after I’ve cried

A little-known fact about you

I do get angry at times

FAVOURITES  

Day of the week

Friday

Colour

White 

Work wear

Loose-fitting clothes 

Leisure wear

Dresses 

Brands

Prime, Dilmah and Spa Ceylon

Drink

Water

Local holiday destination

Kandy

Overseas holiday destination

Europe

Chill out spot

Home 

Cuisines

Sri Lankan, Indian and Japanese

Actors

Jennifer Lopez, Sandra Bullock, Shah Rukh Khan

Movies

The Notebook and The Blind Side

Authors

Sidney Sheldon and Martin Wickramasinghe

Favourite quote from a movie

“Courage is a hard thing to figure out. You could have courage based on dumb ideas or mistakes.” – The Blind Side

Favourite local civil servant

Jayantha Dhanapala

Favourite international civil servant

Kofi Annan

Obsessed with

Nothing

Likely retirement destination

Sri Lanka, of course – it’s my motherland

COMPLETE THE SENTENCE

When you dance, you look like…

I’m having fun

The first thing you notice when meeting someone

If he or she is serious or easygoing

Recently laughed out loud when…

Very difficult tasks were achieved with the Prime teams

Saddened when

I’m let down

You’re challenged by

Things that become difficult

Children are…

Angels from heaven

Colombo in a few words

Lots of potential but taken for granted

Sri Lanka in a few words

The most beautiful country with potential but is ruined by corrupt politicians and an ignorant public

The world is…

What we build

PICK ONE

Memory skills on a scale of 0 to 10

Seven

Computer ability in one word

Average

Most productive in the morning, noon or night

Morning

A leader or follower by nature

Leader

Cook or foodie

Cook

Quality or quantity

Quality

The glass is half full or half empty

Half full

Work or play after retirement

Play

The most delightful word you can think of

‘Can’ 

Do you consider yourself to be a student or teacher?

Both 

A technology that you think will transform the future

A scanner that would scan people 

Your most used word or phrase

‘Will do’

Role model

My mother

Yourself in a few words

Simple, humble and flexible

Motto in life

Be simple, do your best and keep moving

Sandamini is the Co-Chairperson of Prime Group