Neluka De Alwis

In conversation with Dona Senara

JOURNEY OF LIFE

Born on
International Women’s Day

Alma mater
Bishop’s College

Family members
Mother and brother

Wanted to be
An accountant

Is (but didn’t want to be)
I’m in real estate (sales and marketing) and have no regrets about my decision

Drives
A Mercedes-Benz

Would like to drive
A red Mustang – my favourite

A moment you would like to go back to
My schooldays – it was such a carefree life!

Best advice received
From my late father – “Failures are the pillars of success.”

INTIMATE AND INSPIRING

Likes to play
Badminton

Likes to watch
Netflix

Most unforgettable event
My first roller coaster ride – it was a terrifying experience

Purpose in life
Without God, life has no purpose; and without purpose, life has no meaning; and without meaning, life has no significance or hope

Most remarkable people
President Barack Obama and Wilfred Woo (a mentor)

Role models
Mother Theresa and my mother

UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL

Mantra to unwind
Time spent with family and friends

Most hated chore
Laundry

Impressed by
People with a positive outlook on life – I believe it’s within us to help make the world a better place

Happy place
Home with my dog Zoe

Hobbies
Travel and exploration

Pet peeves
Arrogance, ‘attitude’ and bragging

What you think about when you’re in the car
The day ahead

Items on your bucket list for the next six months
Travel the world and explore new destinations

Three items on your bucket list following retirement
Volunteer for a local charity, paint and give a TED Talk

Three must-haves
Honesty, loyalty and trust

What you would like to have
A beach villa

A little-known fact about you
I am a perfectionist

FAVOURITES

Day of the week
Friday

Colours
Red and black

Chill out spot
At my bestie’s – happy laughter and a glass of wine

Workwear
Formal and casual

Leisure wear
Jeans and T-shirt

Brands
Chanel, Gucci, Louis Vuitton
and Nike

Cuisines
Indian, Japanese and Indonesian

Drinks or beverages
Gin and tonic, and single malt

Local holiday destinations
Beach and hill country

International holiday destinations
Europe, the US and Australia

Restaurants
The London Grill and Yumi

Actress
Priyanka Chopra

Musician
Andrea Bocelli

Author
Sydney Sheldon

Favourite quote
“I can accept failure; everyone fails at something – but I can’t accept not trying” – Michael Jordan

Favourite international sportsperson
Cristiano Ronaldo

Favourite local civil servant
Deshamanya Bradman Weerakoon

Obsessed with
My gym routine

Likely retirement destination
Sri Lanka

COMPLETE THE SENTENCE

When you dance, you feel like…
There’s no greater feeling than dancing to beautiful music and letting the
world disappear

The first thing you notice when meeting someone…
His or her smile and attitude

You know it’s going to be a bad day when you…
Wake up with a severe headache

You’re challenged by…
Overthinking

You recently laughed out loud…
I’m always laughing – every day at that!

Saddened when…
People disappoint me

Love has the power to…
Conquer the world

Happiness is when…
I can enjoy the small things in life

Sri Lanka will have a chance to develop when…
We work towards a common goal – without any hidden agendas – for the betterment of the country and its economic prosperity

The world is…
Full of kind people – if you can’t find one, be one

Message of positivity in these trying times
We complain about what can’t be accomplished instead of giving it one hundred percent of our effort and focus – anything is possible with the right mindset

PICK ONE

Memory skills on a scale of 0-10
8

Most productive in the morning, noon or night
Morning

A hunter or gatherer by nature
Hunter

Cook or foodie
Both

The most delightful words you can think of
‘Contentment’ and ‘happiness’

Do you consider yourself a student or teacher
A bit of both

A technology that will transform the future
AI is the future

Your most used word or phrase
Thankful

Workout preferences
Gym

Yourself in a few words
A bubbly person with a positive outlook on life

Motto in life
Be kind – because you never know the battles that others are fighting

Neluka De Alwis is the Chief Marketing and Sales Officer of Sri Lanka Sotheby’s International Realty.