YOUTH FORUM
Compiled by Nicola Jayasundera
PURSUE GROWTH WITH A PURPOSE
Nehemian Perera reflects on the evolving role of youth in shaping the future
Q: What’s the good, the bad and the ugly in Sri Lanka?
A: Our greatest strengths lie in our warm hospitality, rich culture and natural beauty. From the kindness of our people to the charm of our traditions, there is much to be proud of – though we often overlook their value until outsiders highlight them.
Yet, serious challenges remain. Political influence and favouritism, especially in education and sports, mean that opportunities often go to the well-connected while talented individuals are left behind. It is our responsibility to speak up, protect what’s good, and push for a fairer, equal future.
Q: And what are the challenges facing the country today?
A: One of the main challenges youth face is the pressure to be all-rounders – balancing academics, extracurricular activities, leadership, sports and personal growth.
Although this builds resilience, it also creates stress and unrealistic expectations. Many focus solely on academics, neglecting physical and emotional development. True growth requires a balance across cognitive, physical and emotional areas.
Access is another major issue. Although resources exist, many youth are excluded due to costs, location or social barriers. As a result, talented individuals miss out on opportunities to reach their full potential.
Q: How can our youth contribute to national progress?
To see true progress, we can’t remain passive. We must take the initiative, be informed and involved in spheres such as education, innovation, governance or social impact.
Change doesn’t happen overnight but it begins when youth step up with courage, purpose and a heart for service.
Q: What kind of leadership do you think the world needs right now?
A: The world needs leaders who are both kind and firm, who can strike a balance between empathy and authority.
Effective leadership means being intentional, showing you care and making tough decisions when necessary. A good leader must be agile, adaptable and equipped to face challenges. It’s not about titles or perfection; it’s about being real, human and willing to do what others avoid.
A: We have a crucial role in shaping the country’s future. While many youth distance themselves from politics and national issues, real change begins with us. As student leaders today, we are being shaped to be the leaders of tomorrow, make decisions, drive development and influence the nation’s direction.
True leadership is rooted in service. It’s not about changing systems overnight but making a meaningful impact. People may not remember every decision you made but they will remember how you made them feel – and that legacy matters.
Q: How has the advent of AI and technology shaped your view of the future?
A: AI has opened up incredible opportunities, from improving efficiency to solving complex issues. I see it as a powerful platform to support human progress.
However, while the benefits are clear, we must not lose touch with our natural thinking. Relying heavily on AI risks undermining our creativity, critical thinking and emotional depth – traits that make us human.
The future should be about balance. We must use AI as a tool to enhance our capabilities and also be able to think independently. Technology should guide us rather than control us – and it’s our responsibility to preserve human qualities that drive genuine innovation and meaningful impact.
Q: As a young person, what are your hopes for and concerns about the future?
A: I’m hopeful that today’s competitive spirit will continue to drive growth and success. This drive can play a key role in developing our country and building a future where poverty is no longer a burden, and all citizens can live with dignity and purpose.
However, in the pursuit of success, many lose sight of what truly matters. If everything becomes a race to earn and achieve more, we risk forgetting the value of relationships, joy and a meaningful life.
As we build towards the future, we must also live in the present and find purpose beyond personal gain.
Q: If you could launch a project or movement in Sri Lanka, what would it be – and why?
A: I would launch a project to uplift those who are often overlooked, poverty stricken people, social workers, military personnel, parents and others who serve silently; they are the true undercover heroes.
Today, recognition often goes to those who are in the spotlight while many who carry heavy burdens or make great sacrifices remain unnoticed.
